Friday, June 14, 2013

Book Review: No Fond Return of Love by Barbara Pym

No Fond Return of LoveNo Fond Return of Love by Barbara Pym
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

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By far my favorite Pym to date - I guess 4 stars has a range. (I've also read Excellent Women and Jane and Prudence)

In this book, Pym plays with book lovers, writers, observers. Dulcie ("sweet") and Viola (given name: "Violet") become unlikely roommates and companions. Dulcie becomes an interested observer of one of the speakers, Aylwin Forbes. Most of the book is her observations, seeking information, and interest in anyone involved with his life. Learning about him without really knowing him. We see them interact rarely.

Pym talks quite a lot about watching life from the outside. Dulcie resides in the suburbs, not in the midst of the action. She works on her own terms from home, not an office. "It seemed -- though [Dulcie] did not say this to Viola -- so much safer and more comfortable to live in the lives of other people -- to observe their joys and sorrows with detachment as if one were watching a film or a play." (pg 108)

Dulcie, while detached from real life in many ways, is a detail person. Probably why she is good at her work and can do it on her own terms (we almost never see this). She is systematic on her quest to understand Aylwin Forbes, expanding her circle of knowledge from what is printed to his estranged wife to his brother and eventually to his mother and father.

'People blame one for dwelling on trivialities,'" said Dulcie, 'but life is made up of them. And if we've had one great sorrow or one great love, then who shall blame us if we only want the trivial things?'

Viola murmured something, but Dulcie knew that she did not really understand. Lately she had begun to admit to herslef that Viola had turned out to be a disappointment. In a sense, Dulcie felt as if she had created her and that she had not come up to expectations, like a character in a book who had failed to come alive, and how many people in life, if one transferred them to fiction just as they were, would fail to do that! (pg 167-168)


That quote continues from Dulcie's love of the detail into her view of others. Pym has Dulcie seeing people as though reading a novel and explaining to us as those reading a novel how we can see characters as more or less than they are.

One final quote:

'It's impossible to imagine some things,' said Viola wearily. She was thinking of the little bottle of gin in the bedroom cupboard.
'The extraordinary thing is,' Dulcie went on, 'that these things [details about Aylwin's life] have always been so, and yet it's only our knowing about them that has made them real.'
'You could say that about anythying,' Viola objected.
'It's the fourth dimension, isn't it, or something like that. I wish sometimes that I knew about philosophy. Did you see that portrait on the staircase?' Dulcie was quickly down to earth again. 'Couldn't you see a likeness to Aylwin there?' (pg 193-194, emphasis mine)

There's a neighbor in Dulcie's suburb, a man from Brazil, who is often observing the goings on and intrigued by the Englishness of it all. There are flowers in almost every scene. There are other romances that could be discussed. There are references to Mansfield Park, my favorite Austen. The book has so much in it and is so beautifully written. Still not a lot of plot, but an enjoyable read and fun to consider.

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Book Review: Men of Iron by Howard Pyle

Men of IronMen of Iron by Howard Pyle
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

Own as Audio CD read by Jim Weiss. I hope to change to the correct edition soon ...

We listened to Men of Iron on a long trip. We enjoyed the story; the exploits and doings of Myles Falworth were exciting. His maturation throughout the book was well done - from foolish boy to brave, wise knight. His foolish misunderstandings were brought on, at least partially, from the lack of information the adults in his life gave him. Yet, the revelations of friendship, enemy, and history all moved the plot along. Much of the story of Myles' training revolved around his character, both the good and the bad. He was a natural leader, yet sometimes his leadership caused more trouble than necessary.

Perhaps our children were a little young for this. In some ways, the story was nuanced and the language difficult for them. We did have to explain what was going on in several places. They all insisted, however, that they liked the story, and since we own it, can listen again in the future.

While we generally enjoy Jim Weiss and his CDs, this one seemed less professional than we've come to expect. There were places where obvious corrections were made that were distracting to the adult listener.

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Book Review: Runaway Ralph by Beverly Cleary

Runaway Ralph CD: Runaway Ralph CDRunaway Ralph CD: Runaway Ralph CD by Beverly Cleary
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

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This was a good story for traveling. It isn't very taxing to the listener and is short. It has exciting parts, a message, and a happy ending. The children like the idea of a mouse who rides a motorcycle by making its noise. BD Wong was a good reader. Definitely should read The Mouse and the Motorcycle before this one.

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Book Review: Jane and Prudence by Barbara Pym

Jane and PrudenceJane and Prudence by Barbara Pym
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

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This was my second Barbara Pym novel. I liked it a lot even though there was little plot ... maybe even less than Excellent Women. The characters grew and better knew themselves by the end. They advanced. For about half the book I didn't care for Jane (spacey) or Prudence (discontent). By the end I was a fan (of Jane, anyway). Beautifully written. It could take a lifetime to trace all the allusions of poetry and literature.

I understand why people don't care for Pym, but I do enjoy the calm, floating absorption when I'm reading one of her books. She tells simple tales of regular folk; there's nothing mysterious or exceptional about the things that happen to her characters, but their individual voices, their interests, abilities, and character all are brought together in a loving, purposeful way.

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Book Review: Strong Poison by Dorothy L Sayers

Strong Poison (Lord Peter Wimsey Mysteries, #6)Strong Poison by Dorothy L. Sayers
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

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Well, I must say that this was my favorite Lord Peter book as yet. To see the generally self controlled Lord Peter lose his cool over a woman was a pretty interesting development. To see the fall-out from that in his dealings with his acquaintance, his family, Miss Climpson, Inspector Parker, and finally solving the mystery was intriguing.

Depsite some reviewers who did not care for Miss Climpson's episodes, I like her. She's got pluck and her work was indispensable. A character like Lord Peter requires a community working for the same goals, and I think Strong Poison emphasizes the idea that no man is an island .... particularly a man in love.



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Book Review: Lord Peter Views the Body by Dorothy L Sayers

For the first time since vacation, I've turned on my laptop, which means I'll be publishing a bunch of book reviews here to the blog today. I might even post something about vacation. And school. Or I might not. Forewarned is forearmed ... Lord Peter Views the Body (Lord Peter Wimsey Mysteries, #4)Lord Peter Views the Body by Dorothy L. Sayers
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

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In many ways, this was a good vacation read. Short stories. I didn't realize that it was a selection of short stories when I began it. The positive of short stories is that you can read a section, then go to the beach. The negative of short stories is that unsatisfying feeling of having to pick up a book you feel you have "finished."

The stories themselves are excellent little mysteries, interesting enough to spend some time considering. My favorite was the final one, Inside Ali Baba's Den (or somesuch). The stories are cohesive on the character of Lord Peter and they advance his character and wit.

While, in general, I wouldn't choose a book of short stories, this one feels important to cement Lord Peter's established set of work as a detective before Strong Poison. I note this only because I followed this book by immediately reading Strong Poison.

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Wednesday, May 29, 2013

Book Review: The Exact Place: a memoir by Margie L Haack

The Exact Place: a memoirThe Exact Place: a memoir by Margie L. Haack

My rating: 4 of 5 stars


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Magie Haack (of Ransom Fellowship) had quite the childhood.  In this book, she reviews her life and relates God's hand in it.  She says that her childhood was in the 'exact place' she was to be -- which, very often would be the opposite of her personal choice.

In her somewhat primitive, cramped home (at least in 20th C America), her step-father always disapproved and seemed to disdain her.  She spent her childhood working for the approval of one who would never approve.  In one of the most poignant chapters of the book, Haack explores the ideas of father-hunger and God-hunger.  She seeks approval from God as she did from her step-father.  The relief is palpable. 

Haack relates the good, the bad, and the ugly.  She tells of her escapades primarily with her brother Randy.  She shares the shame she felt about her lifestyle when confronted by peers.  She shares joys and successes. 

I enjoyed the story and Haack's writing.  The chapters are longer which makes reading 'a chapter before bed' a trickier read for me.  Glad I read it.




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Wednesday, May 15, 2013

Book Review: The Little Way of Ruthie Leming by Rod Dreher

The Little Way of Ruthie Leming: A Southern Girl, a Small Town, and the Secret of a Good LifeThe Little Way of Ruthie Leming: A Southern Girl, a Small Town, and the Secret of a Good Life by Rod Dreher

My rating: 5 of 5 stars


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Rod Dreher has long been one of my favorite bloggers - I've followed him off and on since his days at National Review.  I read his earlier book, Crunchy Cons, several years ago.  I've followed his blog through the process of writing this book and wanted to read it.

I'm glad I did.

Oh, I could write about all sorts of themes and ideas from cancer to wanderings to suffering to place to people to politics to churches.  I could talk about elitism, "flyover country," and reality.

But, it all comes down to love.  Love of family. Love of community. Love by acting, loving through action.  Ruthie loved, accepted love, served, accepted service and showed Christ in an excellent way.  Imperfectly, yes, but her community, her family, Dreher himself was changed by love she showed.  This book is about love. 

You should read the book, too. It will make you want to love others better.



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Tuesday, May 14, 2013

Book Club: The Hidden Art of Homemaking Chapter 4

Cindy is hosting a Book Club discussing The Hidden Art of Homemaking by Edith Schaeffer.  Please join us!

I've never considered myself artistic.  The college prep track I took in school left no room for art class.  College really, either excepting the Art History class I was required to take.  I enjoy some art, but don't understand it.  

I've also been a little intimidated by the sermon drawing in this chapter.  Partially because I'm concerned about using the visual in worship, partially because I'm simply unable to think on the fly how  to draw my pastor's sermons.  I do take notes, and the older children have been learning to do so as well.  They have drawn some little pictures before they could really write.  I should have R-girl working on that now.

In some ways, I think art for the homemaker has changed in the Computer Age from when Mrs. Schaeffer wrote Hidden Art.  I've been trying to transition to doing my lists digitally after reading Mystie's Paperless Home Organization.  It's a big transition, but has been worthwhile so far.  What that means, though is that I don't have papers that I'm doodling on.  But, if you look around Pinterest for home organization printables and layouts, there are beautiful, colorful pages aplenty.  If you look at Brandy's Circle Time plans, the layout and details from fonts to clip art are pleasing to the eye. 

We do love art in our homeschool. We do an art lesson every other week with friends, we use Artistic Pursuits and we have learned so much.  We look at art every day by means of the Metropolitan Museum of Art's annual Page A Day calendar (this is our 3rd year and we love it).  We're going to start alternating our Opal Wheeler books with the Simply Charlotte Mason Art Study packets during Circle Time.  We've enjoyed trips to museums, Art Cards, and creating Nature Journals. 

I was surprised in this chapter, by her very brief inclusion of cake decorating as one of these artistic endeavors.  I can do this a bit.  I can't say I have enough talent or patience to work at it diligently and often.  Plus, I hate the cleanup.  Each Christmas my mother and I decorate dozens of cookies. I make cakes for my kids' birthdays ... one of the most searched-for posts here is my Jack and the Beanstalk cake (which fell).

My real claim to fame with cakes is that many years ago my friend and I were asked to teach cake decorating at a Keepers at Home meeting at our church.  We did so - just piped some stars on cupcakes - and one of the young ladies (who is now in high school) took it and ran with it.  She is talented, patient, and willing to work.  And, my, how amazing her cakes are.  She did the cakes for the most recent weddings at church and regularly brings cakes for potlucks.  She has been accepted into a local vocational culinary program for her Junior and Senior years.  This is the beauty of introducing art to younger people, when their efforts vastly outpace your own.

Maybe I should make some cutouts for my own children sometime soon ...

The Simple Woman's Daybook for May 14, 2013



FOR TODAY

Outside my window... is grey with a luminescence from the sun behind the trees and houses.  Striking. 

I am thinking...
about starting lessons for the day.

I am thankful...
for antibiotics and tetanus shots after R-girl stepped on something and got an infection.

In the kitchen...
I'm supposed to be making Sandwich for a Crowd for dinner ...

I am wearing...
jeans, red tshirt, blue hoodie sweater.  It's going to warm up, but is chilly this morning.

I am creating... lalalalalalala

I am going... to soccer or baseball practice tonight.

I am wondering... how much we'll get done today.

I am reading... The Little Way of Ruthie Leming by Rod Dreher (one of my favorite bloggers).  Trying to keep my emotions detached, it is very good.  I'm about half-way through, not letting myself rip through the story, trying to catch the ideas.

I am hoping... to finish it and review it soon.

I am looking forward to... vacation soon!

I am learning... to take it easy during soccer season.  Everyone's worn out. We're enjoying later starts.

Around the house...

I am pondering... artistry in life. 

A favorite quote for today...

One of my favorite things... listening to my kiddos "play" guitar and harmonica.  They're having a grand time even if it sounds crazy.

A few plans for the rest of the week...
soccer, baseball, piano, soccer, wedding shower, soccer ... school!

A peek into my day...
wearing Aunt Janie's dress.  My MIL tells me she wore it for her K graduation.  It fits R-girl perfectly and is so cute and perfect for a little girl!



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